Showing posts with label SGL Identity. Show all posts
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Saturday, August 11, 2018

Kyle Phoenix Answers: Why would someone diverge from the terminology of gay, bi, homosexual to Same Gender Loving? Is it exclusively racial among Black and Latino people?

As we as a society move further into the future, as we develop further, all factions and sub-groups are coming to the consciousness of self-development and actualization. To that end sexuality, or more precisely it’s labeling for the individual is coming not simply under examination but a form of transformation. The terms bi, gay, heterosexual, lesbian, even homosexual, are derived from Westernized concepts of pseudo-scientific demarcation as well as historical controls that don’t serve the people of the African Diaspora fully in the 21st century. First let me same that when I speak of the “African Diaspora”
I’m including men and women whose ancestors came from Africa to Central and South (Latin) America in the African Diaspora. The division that skin color based racism has created is a delusional discordant separation between the people (progeny) of the African Diaspora. Bluntly, people who obviously ain’t Anglo Saxon “White” disavow being in any part Black or African. Such a dissonance is racism at work. To think of yourself, your origins in Africa as not a part of the Diaspora is to align with the slave based mentality. Truthfully to do so as a Latino person may’ve historically meant survival, the ability to prosper and less abuses, degradation and enslavement rules years ago (in places like Cuba, Argentina, Mexico, Puerto Rico, etc.) but just as there is the connection for Mexicans and Caribbean folk to the nearly eradicated Taino people, there is the connection to the vibrant African spiritual and physical heritage that exists on all the continents in its people.
I often have to make this racialized overview in my work with men of color, Black and Latino, here in America because racism aligned into hegemony is so pervasive that many people do not know what they are. Nor appreciate the value of knowing so. Or even worse they have assumed the racial, cultural and spiritual segregation rules of the enslaver. While this might seem far afield of the point of sexuality, it is not as you’ll see in part s to come.
But what then of “mixed” brothers and sisters who, even like myself, can trace and perhaps even have been cared for and loved by White family members. Are they being asked to eschew those people, those memories, and those ancestors in favor of only African, Native/indigenous ones?
Never.
Instead I offer to you to expand your context of not only yourself but what you can racially and culturally contain, be and love.
What I am suggesting is that by being a person integrating or wholly of color means that your ontology can be greater, broader than an overly simplistic European one. People of color, whether African, Native or Asiatic in origin are not White/European people and don’t contain simply a European/American framework for understanding themselves, the Universe around them or even sexuality. It’s always easiest to instead define what I mean by “framework” in a racialized context first:
Ontology is one’s understanding of the nature of reality.
White history is largely deterministic, reductionist, rational, and objective in its historical and continuous ways of rationalizing what is real. White people believe that the world can be the world can be understood (and controlled) through the application of science and hypothesis testing. Therefore time is linear, with the past and future workings pushing them (and others) to reify progress as superior. To assume that technology is advancement as a whole and not simply tool. Logic and facts then become synonymous with the truth. Knowledge and reality are assumed to be generalize-able and universal. If it can be tested, examined, it can be named and by naming and labeling it, it is what the speaker, the labelerdetermines it to be. Such a perception in no way allows for the context nor the individual to determine in a particular way it’s own meaning.
Epistemology is the system of knowing what is known or knowable.
White systems of knowing include individualism, competition, positivism, constant rationality, adherence to logic and objectivity; all powerful and discerning science and constant dualism (right/wrong, good/bad. Approved/disapproved). Pan African activist, author and organizer Marimba Ani boils the European epistemological mode down to this: “Rob the universe of its richness, deny the significance of the symbolic, simply phenomena until it becomes mere object, and you have a knowable quantity. Here begins and ends the European epistemological mode.”
Such an epistemological frame in no way allows for community, grouping, teams, unification, irrationality, innovation, creativity if those forms don’t adhere to the rules of a dominant culture epistemology. In many ways you see this throughout history where in the Western world there have been hundreds of years of only incremental progress in terms of thought, beingness, science, technology because there has been such a rigid adherence to “certain ways of knowing and therefore doing things.”
Methodology asks how the information is gathered for creating knowledge.
The scientific process where hypothesis testing for quantitative results by objective researchers is expected. This is considered a reliable norm for finding answers and then it is allowed to contribute to what is judged as valid knowledge. The search for immutable laws; application of cause and effect, affect to effect, to form an understanding that can then be generalized to larger populations has long been bedrock for White methodology. Though predicated on religious thoughts and teachings, it comes into conflict with itself when trying to “explain” the miracles of its own spiritual beliefs. In many ways the greatest irony of White methodology is that its own methodology both points at and then ridicules its own community beliefs.
In many areas of White culture (particularly in translation to social norms, such as social class differences between those in poverty, middle class and upper class) there is an emphasis on direct verbal and written communication, content, and task over process and relationship, timely adherence to agendas versus spontaneity, considerable discomfort with non-rational ways of knowing, such as through our bodies, the spiritual or artistic expression. To not adhere to these points or ways of being is considered bestial, lower than or irrational so that reality becomes a place dictated by rules that are agreed upon not by observation but by ruling council.
Axiology is the ethics and values of a people.
It is where people create themselves, where they see themselves in relationship to God, Nature, the Universe, the fabric of reality around them. We use this to answer life’s mysteries and s[peculate and then create ephemeral possibilities. But when supported by the above frameworks, a society’s, a person’s, internal to external perception is instead supportive not expanding of the White frameworks described before. We then experience and see a damaging form of education when we consider reality only through an Aristotelian value based system, where knowledge itself is the only intrinsically worthwhile endeavor. The way this manifests now is in the modern propensity to educate the intellect in damaging disassociation from feeling, imagination and action. Aristotle, Shakespeare, Copernicus, Descartes and Darwin were useful to loosen White people from other White people with more dogmatic religious and feudal based societal thinking. However compartmentalization has become a way in which White people see themselves and prioritize their lives and experiences and maintain their grip on reality along such a continuum. Appreciation, veneration, communication with one’s ancestors and connection to the natural world are two indigenous values that get less attention in White culture, with destructive outcomes for people and the environment.
All of the above is why people of color are not always in “step” with White people. We view reality intrinsically differently. It doesn’t mean that with concerted effort we can’t learn to understand the other’s ways of thinking but people of color have had more demands upon themselves to learn White people for basic survival than White people ever had the other way around. If we push this framework even further we can replace ‘White” with heterosexual. If one is not heterosexual, one is not considered right or good or part of nature by certain scientific and religious frameworks. The reason why such bias and discrimination can occur is because bias and discrimination are at the heart of White ontology. It’s not a huge leap to transfer that from race to sexuality.
But the actions and potential blame doesn’t fall to simply White people. We too must take responsibility and concerted action to see ourselves, to self-perceive and create ourselves in a healthier cultural alignment. We do this by understanding the stages of cultural and racial self perception. And as those of us color must do so must individuals who aren’t of color must move through stages of identity formation in order to clearly see and be able to navigate themselves and this world healthily.
Helms Model
6 Stages, J.E. Helms (1990), Black and White Racial Identity: Theory Practice
Frankenberg Model
(White Framework Movements)
Stage 1-Content Stage
People of Color are exoticized, White are oblivious to their own racism; nor see themselves as White
Phase 1
Essentialism Racism
Biological difference is basis of racism---usually what Whites really mean when they say “I’m not racist.”
Stage 2-Disintegration
Notice racism, distance themselves from Black and Latino people out of guilt/shame from White privilege.
Phase 2
Color Blindness
Common discourse, seeing race at all is prejudiced; and being able to designate/nullify color is a position/privilege of a “White self”
Stage 3-Reintegration
Whites believe there is an element of truth to racial stereotypes and avoid associating with them or treat them badly/act violently.
Phase 3
Power Erosion
See race, recognize racial difference but do not acknowledge the power of difference between Whites and People of Color---but are pointedly careful to avoid discussions of unequal power relationships; focuses on internal thought
Stage 4-Pseudo-Independent
Whites begin to understand that they aren’t superior but might still perpetuate the belief through actions.
Phase 4
Race Cognizance
(Transforming Silence Into Language and Action)-able to use the term my racism; political activism seen as way to deal with racism; focus becomes more collective
Stage 5-Immersion/Repellent
Whites start coming to terms with what it means to be White; join White consciousness groups, talk to other Whites about racism.
Stage 6-Autonomy Stage
People have a positive definition of Whiteness and understand Whites perpetuate racism, but they seek ways to eradicate racism on personal and societal levels.
As we grow, we change and expand, as all life does and must.
Ashe.

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Kyle Phoenix Answers: What does "SGL" Same Gender Loving mean for people of color (African American, Latino, Caribbean, etc.) in regards to sexuality?

An SGL Identity
Now that we’ve established what we are and how we perceive ourselves and reality from a cultural and racial point of view. And have moved through the view of our own sexuality as existent, as divergent from absolute heterosexuality, but not excluding it, we can look at the confluence of the two with a third element: the emotional-spiritual-cultural nomination of the Self.
Same Gender Loving is a description for homosexuals and bisexuals, particularly in the African American and Latino community. It emerged in the early 1970s as a [Black] culturally affirming homosexual identity. SGL is an alternative to Eurocentric homosexual identities e.g. gay and lesbian which do not culturally affirm or engage the history and cultures of people of African descent. Specifically, the term SGL affirms Black homosexual and bisexual men and women through its African American conceptual origins, African inspired iconography, philosophy, symbols, principles, and values. The term SGL usually has broad, important and positive personal, social, and political purposes and consequences. SGL is anti-hate and anti-anti-Black.
In a 2004 study of African American men, most of whom were recruited from black gay organizations, 12% identified as same gender loving, while 53% identified as gay. Men attending Black Gay Pride Festivals in nine U.S. cities in 2000 responded similarly, with 10% identifying as same gender loving, 66% as gay, and 14% as bisexual. Because of selection bias the results of the studies are unsurprising. Recent studies indicate that African-American disadvantaged youths are less likely than Euro-American youths to self-label as gay male, lesbian, or transgender youths. While these studies exhibit an expected outcome, that is, going to an organization or event that is labeled and marketed as gay would yield a high correlation between participants and a gay identity such studies also illustrate the need for increased study and location of the organizations and activities that cater to same gender loving people.
It was reported, for instance, that in 1990 and 2000 the Census allowed same-sex cohabiting couples to identify themselves as "unmarried partners." It is likely that many of the individuals in these same-sex couples would identify as "gay," "lesbian," and/or "same gender loving.
By nominating ourselves, by determining our own racial self-perception, our own self-perceived sexuality, no matter how and why it might change and grow, we move away from a White ontology of quantification of our selves. It might at first seem idiosyncratic or even extremely radical but it is both historical, the Kunte Kinte of ourselves, and radically progressive to self-determine how one is nominated. The reason why I tool such labored pains to point out the connection between people of the African Diaspora and indigenous peoples is so that we can connect to that historically, not simply default to that which the dominant culture presents to us. And we can do something even more radical: acknowledge the imposition and subjugation upon us and our sexuality by the dominant culture. We can acknowledge that there was a span of hundreds of years within a Western framework where people of color, whether Native, African or Latino, were allowed to self-determine and nominate their sexuality. Our bodies, ourselves, our expressions of ourselves was co-opted and controlled. Doesn’t it then make sense that we moved in lockstep with White homosexuals in definition of a divergent sexuality from heterosexuality, without regards to if that new definition fit us emotionally, culturally, spiritually as well.
I, of course, recognize that this Special Report has been filled with some of the information and ways of interpreting information that I initially derided. I do this intentionally.
• One, to establish a framework of language and understanding between me, you and the materials themselves.
• And secondly, as a way of giving you a springboard to launch yourself into your own direction of self-definition.
If your definitions are general (and dominant culture imposed at that) you can in no way disavow them and consider the voice within you, the experience of your own self as the definer of your human experience. Use the previous information not to reinforce your acceptance of an overly simplistic and culturally nullifying nomination, but instead to trigger your inherent, ancestral radicalism to re-nominate yourself.
As a man of color, you’re going up against your family of origin, your community, perhaps even your own inner thoughts to try and forge a life as an MSM. The effort to reconcile your sexuality, your desire for intimacy, mating and love against the society at large, is tremendous. Coupled with the fact that as a man of color there are inordinate pressures upon your psyche, your life about your very existence. About whether your intelligence is “true” or real; about whether your intentions are pure and trustworthy; about whether your very existence is valuable. Converging the two elements of your life together creates an incredible weight within MSM of color. Nowhere in history is there a space of reflection, of lesson to look upon to see how MSM of color dealt with these multiple burdens from the society around them. Yet we can forge a new paradigm for handling these elements of pressure. First though we must start by self0defining ourselves. By speaking our truth to power, by recognizing that we possess the intrinsic right to connect and be seen as we desire.
That’s monumental.
The strategies and historical elements useful for such work, more than we can tackle in this Special Report, are now available in the 21st century for us to bandy about, for us to examine, for us to analyze and hold that which serves and leave that which doesn’t.. But I invite you to take the first step, to simply think and speak of yourself differently. To try it out. To decide for yourself what such a definition would look like for you. Not through the words or edict of any leaders, gay or SGL defined, but through your own template of identity. Manhood is about accountability, responsibility and integrity---I challenge you to apply all three portions to this task. In accountability to yourself, what embodies and supports not simply your sexual classification but also you racial one? In responsibility, what do you then do with your newfound definition for yourself and your community? And finally, in integrity, your own forged steel and iron within, how do you articulate it outwards into your relationships with other men, in a loving fashion?
To identify as SGL is not simply a testament of one’s sexuality, it is also the integration of our own cultural self-perceptions and a rejection of simple binary definitions and epistemologies of sexuality. Take some time and define your individual self and sexuality, you’ll be more the better and empowered for doing so!
Ashe.

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