Showing posts with label asian. Show all posts
Showing posts with label asian. Show all posts

Saturday, June 30, 2018

Kyle Phoenix Answers: I'm a gay black man into Asian men. Why are Asian men not into blacks?



Are we avoiding the racial profiling going on? You want a generic Asian for his Asian ness? That Asian smell? Their hair texture? That special glint in his eyes? What if you said I'm really looking for a Jew?

By generalization and not saying Chinese or Japanese or Hmong you're saying Asian ness is what you want. Isn't it racist to narrowly want someone for something so arbitrary? Maybe your hunger for Asian men towards them is the gross turn off. I know when men talk about how wonderful and sexy and desirable my melanin blackness is I feel creeper out. You know they don't have a cultural investment, never studied us beyond sex and gratification they just want the racial fantasy in their head to be with so that I'm not real, I'm interchangeable.
Because that's what it project, any Asian will do in a pinch....as long as their eyes are Asian, ophthalmic, with Asian hair and maybe an Asian accent and clever far east ways.
Whiteness as privilege has taught us to reduce others to a physical race rather than human beings. They avoid you because its racially demeaning to be wanted because of a social construct projection and not as a real, breathing person.
Would you settle for a half Asian, a quarter? See you're really ordering an ego meal. Asian racist style.

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Kyle Phoenix Answers: Do African-American people hate Asians for being the "model minority"?

Kyle Phoenix
Kyle Phoenix, Writer and student & Instructor at Columbia University


No.
Like all other humans, 98% of our time is consumed with thinking about ourselves.
The other 2% is spent wondering what others are thinking about us.
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Thursday, March 29, 2018

Kyle Phoenix Answers: I'm a gay Black man into Asian men. Why are Asian men not into Blacks?

By generalization and not saying Chinese or Japanese or Hmong you're saying Asian ness is what you want. Isn't it racist to narrowly want someone for something so arbitrary? Maybe your hunger for Asian men towards them is the gross turn off. I know when men talk about how wonderful and sexy and desirable my melanin blackness is I feel creeper out. You know they don't have a cultural investment, never studied us beyond sex and gratification they just want the racial fantasy in their head to be with so that I'm not real, I'm interchangeable.
Because that's what it project, any Asian will do in a pinch....as long as their eyes are Asian, ophthalmic, with Asian hair and maybe an Asian accent and clever far east ways.
Whiteness as privilege has taught us to reduce others to a physical race rather than human beings. They avoid you because its racially demeaning to be wanted because of a social construct projection and not as a real, breathing person.
Would you settle for a half Asian, a quarter? See you're really ordering an ego meal. Asian racist style.

Friday, December 15, 2017

Kyle Phoenix Answers:I'm a Gay Black Man into Asian men. Why are Asian men not into blacks?


Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Book Review: The African Origin of Civilization Myth or Reality, Book Review by Kyle Phoenix


Book Review: The African Origin of Civilization Myth or Reality
This is an important book to society.  To all societies.  I often have discussions with my students and when I'm in my own classes, my professors and classmates about this system of race that has been created and foisted upon us.  Even more often I hear adults of color tell younger people that Black people built the pyramids.  What they're trying to do is engender a sense of historical pride and identification with a viable, valuable and incredible creation.  This is good.  The problem often comes when the younger people don't want to know or don't care/identify with this model.  This too is natural.  The psychology of people of color is divided with a part of the older generation still residing in the challenge, perspectives and concepts of the Civil Rights Movement.  More, more than 50%, of the newer generations don't see, want, nor have the same value attitude towards this information.  This too is natural.  Why?  Because our society has shifted, as societies do, and integration means that we're no longer segregated in our self-perceptions.  Bluntly, race, while evident is not the totality of my and younger generations self perception because we've been more integrated into the overall society than our parents our grandparents.  But this doesn't mean that there still shouldn't be a deeper origin of humanity that includes all of the segments that we have now isolated down to "race".

Cheikh Anta Diop (29 December 1923 in Thieytou, Diourbel Region–7 February 1986 in Dakar) was a historian,anthropologist, physicist, and politician who studied the human race's origins and pre-colonial African culture.  He applied his scholarship to the examination of Africa and it's historical place and the racial impact upon the world.  The African Origin of Civilization was first introduced to me passing back and forth in front of my parents' bookcases as a child.  I didn't read and engage it until my undergraduate Teacher's Asst. position for Carlene Hatcher Polite.  Every semester she would set this book and another as the text for Black Literature 300 level classes.
Later visiting my parent's home I would see that we always had this book, I was just the only one in the family who hadn't read it.  Why does this matter?  I think it matters because when I look at my parents who were members of the Black Panther Party and the Black Liberation Army, I come from revolutionaries.   Who were informed and strengthened in revolutionary thought.  Therefore I am comfortable in my self, my identity, my sexuality, my religious and political views being revolutionary.  This context of parents and mentors passing onto me such an important book allows me to one day sit with my children and teach them about events thousands of years ago,traceable step by step, like a pre-cyberspace Twitter feed, to the root, the Kunte Kinte, as Carlene would say, of who they are.

This is another piece of literature that falls into that special category I tell my students about, a Patience Book.  Take your time with this, tracing through history, past the often repeated perspective of American history, ack past European history and see that there was a full, vibrant, intelligent, viable world thousands of years before.  We often exclude African and Asiatic history  opting to allow ourselves to believe that Earth, time, civilization began in a manger between a couple who are the ultimate Maury Povich, who's my baby daddy episode, instead of piercing the veil and seeing.  Not merely looking but truly seeing the culture, the languages, the foundation materials from Africa of what we now deem a good civilization.


Thank you,
Kyle Phoenix
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Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Book Review, The Color of Wealth, by Kyle Phoenix

 There are 5 "races" in America: Asian, Latino, African/Black, Native American and Caucasian.  That's a given but what isn't often examined as closely is how each racial group occupies America and why.  Every racial classification (technically Latinos are an ethnicity) has had historical issues in America, pointed laws against them achieving financial parity with Caucasians.  Suddenly that question of what's going on and who has access to the American Dream and why, becomes pertinent and immediate.

In my teaching work I am pushed by the materials often to deal with race, it is the pressing educational issue of the 21st Century in many ways as society is moving us all, races and ethnicities to a level of equality being within reach of all.  I would argue that the past 100 years of all the races excepting Caucasian, have just learned and been given the opportunity to have, use and manage large sums of not simply money but wealth.  It's not a lot yet, the annual expenditure of African Americans is close to $1 trillion a year, Latinos are between $800 to 900 billion a year but where does that money go?  Only a half to a third own homes and businesses of Latinos and Blacks.  Native Americans barely hit the measuring rod because there are so few due to genocide and Asians,who tend to be more educated that Caucasians and earn more per household, are also not a large enough population to move economies.  However Blacks and Latinos spend their money on overwhelmingly Caucasian based businesses and products, keeping one race financially healthy at the detriment of themselves.  Economic hegemony.

Where are you in your life?  Where are you within segments of your race?  Based upon generally American Census financial information:
  • Poverty is 1 to 4 people living on $18,000 or less a year.
  • Working Class is 1 to 4 people living on $30,000 or less a year.
  • Middle Class is 1 to 4 people living on $36,000 or more a year.
  • Upper Middle Class is 1 to 4 people living on up to $250,000 a year.
  • Rich is 1 to 4 people living on $1 million or more in income a year.
  • Wealth is $10 million a year or more in annual income and the wherewithal to pass it on to the next generation.
This book is an excellent manual for understanding historically how races use and have money in America and why.  And then it goes a level deeper, it prescribes what the individual, state and national government can do to bridge inequalities.  Take a chance figure out why you're where you're at and learn the skills to get out.


Thank you!
Kyle Phoenix
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