This will blow your mind: about average is good enough.
6–7 inches, normal girth size. As the prostate is a inch beyond teh interior and exterior sphincter muscles it’s about aim, direction—-John Mayer knows this move intimately to hit the female G spot—-moreso than size.
Size demands have to do with four things:
One:
The male ego’s need for validation within a homosexual context. There is no social profit as a man to being fucked by a man or fucking another man. So it gets reduced to the lowest common denominator of validation: size. If I can profess to take big dicks or have one—-then at least in the sub-culture I’m validated as a star. Also most gay men resent men who they are attracted to. I know it doesn't make sense but it’s something that has to be emotionally dealt with, not liking that which you’re attracted uncontrollably to because it gets you kicked out of the Manhood Human Cave.
Two:
It’s a way to reduce men. Imagine you have to engage men similar to women and woo them and talk to them and value them as people or at least pretend to in order to be sex or seen as attractive? Instead, again the lowering men down to the lowest common denominator—-size—-and I can skirt that—-the skill of intimacy, which that I lack because I was raised in a heterosexual society—-so I don’t know how to relate to men, to be attractive to them, to completely identify what is useful in my own attraction. Let’s just make it all about selection through dick size/sex and call it a done deal. because anything else is too complicated.
Three:
Not knowing the dance of intimacy I still need a way to judge men, proof the customer, eliminate men by reducing them and yet still find compatibility but without deep engagement. So what if I just demand 9 inches or more? If they’re willing to step up and they have spent time and know, for some unknown egoic, narcissistic reason, the exact length of their engorged penis—-we’re probably operating from the same mental-sexual paradigm. he won’t require anything of me. Why? Because he’s just narcissistic enough to spend his free time measuring his engorged penis. We’re both Narcissists Level 5s!!! Yayness!
Four:
There’s the fourth vague reason of the emotionality that a Bottom feels form being penetrated and their rectum filled but the biological truth is the all of your nerve endings are about 3–4 inches in from the exterior sphincter muscle, beyond that it’s membrane with very little nerve ends/feelings and then entrance to the colon/intestine which is pain and bodily harm. Why do men then report this as necessary, fulfilling?
Remember the girl in high school who following the film Deep Throat talked about having no gag reflex and being able to put a whole zucchini down her throat of a guy and how the football team loved her and she was celebrated. She was lying. She really didn’t like it. but she thought she was suppose to say she liked it. So that’s what she said. High school, juvenile mentality for validation.
Once again, the male genitalia and anal tract. Look at how small in length it is. Do you really need a 12 incher battering through to your intestines?
Really?
Really?
If you do, you’re bad at sex. Men don’t know their bodies. Now you do! One to grow on…or sit on.
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