What can a straight person learn from the gay 'community', what can a gay person learn from straight society? by Kyle Phoenix

 

Gay people can learn how to date and healthy preservation.
Most gay men sexualize dating and then are upset at a lack of courtship and community relationship skills. The missing additive is indirectly women but more pointedly the feminine. A group that rebukes fats and fems, physical and emotional social feminizations is self destructive. Whomever asks pays, straight men for years have saved up and used resources to court and attract. I use my resources as such. I ask, I pay. Half the fun in that is unless there's an objection I get to go to a lot of my favorite restaurants with hopefully good company. I'm pretty confident that if I spend $50 or a $100 on you for dinner----somehow, someway, with deep tax planning, moving of investments, selling of assets and restructuring of my entire portfolio I'll make it not only through the year but the rest of my lifetime if we never see each other after the date I paid for.

Somehow......I'll financially survive.
I'm a Man.
Hangups about paying, power and caring for others leads to self destruct behaviors.

Here how the self destruction manifests: Barebacking. Breeding. Abstaining from safe sex as a lifestyle choice. "I can't find or be a decent man so fuck it, might as well work out six days a week and go bareback!"

What Straight people do you know who say fuck it, I'm going to a Herpes swapping party? Or aim for the highest populace with gonorrhea, naked and willing?

Straight people generally don’t because of self preservation and children....even if kids are someday. Gay people, internalizing self hate treat this like a 20 year trip and then you die. So why bother?

Gay people could stand to learn that willful humanity based right to exist and propagate . That responsibility and possibilities whether or not actualized makes straight people invested in the future of ultimately all people.

Straight people could stand to learn that sexual activities and even identity are not permanent and don't need a chromosome to be respected. The debate over whether it is nature or not, does this really matter to climate change, or poverty or substandard education or misogyny? Is the dynamics of someone's crotch really earth shatteringly important to really anyone but those involved with said crotch?

For instance lots of straight folk who've had sex this week will read this. A couple days ago I actually had the pancakes from McDonald's. See a random yet significant hole in my body that I had a hot sticky activity with that you don't give a flying fuck about. And that sex you had this week? I don't care either.

The only legislation should be around responsibly no coercive crotch usage. After that, I don't need your help. In fact I think it would be a far more relaxed planet and truly freak out the super-gays if millions of straight people copped to their homo, bi experiences with a shrug. It would take away a lot of the butt clenching on both sides. Because then the gays could talk about their hetero experiences and fantasies and stop trying to be the perfect Martians.

Dating, HIV, pancakes, my face hole, butts unclenching, everybody has a story, an affair, a fantasy and that doesn't automatically put them into any category they don’t want to be.

Yeah that about covers it.

Why Are Straight Men Threatened by Gay Men? Answered by Kyle Phoenix

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Rape.

Heterosexual men are aware of the internalized and often externalized machismo/rape culture of patriarchy. The only thing that is different is that men tend to rape women more than hetero men rape men.

But what if hetero men were on the buffet table for other men? What if men, with penises found hetero men attractive? These men might have the same or greater physical strength, distorted mental states, lack of empathy, desire to harm others—-just like some hetero men feel towards women. But they’re big dicked, anally interested men!

What happens when the same lions in the pride or even bigger ones start preying on….other lions!!!!——who thought they were the top of the pile?

Men have no defense against rape because men are rarely put into that mind frame to consider how to negotiate themselves out of a sexually dangerous situation.

• How would a man negotiate with a pack of homo men who cornered him and decided to rape him? That context of reality simply doesn’t exist for men to have an experience to draw upon for how to run, fight, negotiate.
• Or what to do if two buddies are at home and a man gets the other drunk and starts to force himself sexually upon him?
• Or what to do when a gay guy makes pushy, overt, creepy come-ons to him—-was the straight guy giving off a signal? Is he really gay?

Homosexual attention towards straight men threatens the fragile force field of masculinity-patriarchy.

Seduction

There’s also the internalized fear of seduction, of possibility overwhelming the doubts of a man. Homosexual connection obviates the responsibility of heterosexuality—-women, marriage, children—-and that means that if there is a smidge of possible interest than the spark can become a fire. Men don’t have a system within society other than full homosexuality for dealing with deep male friendship and intimacy that doesn’t include sex and therefore the possibility of floating back and forth (experimenting) with male sexuality. That’s frightening.

The narrow confines of male heterosexuality in a patriarchal society doesn’t allow for anything but another narrow sexual classification/intimacy classification. Because the initial system is so tight then heterosexual men see homosexual men as one, more powerful because they can flexibly move from hetero to homo (sperm works without sexuality agreement), which leads to the last point of threat.

Obsolete Hetero men

If a homo men can produce sperm and there’s science or social agreement that can make procreation with women…and women like or even prefer the company of homosexual men…then what’s the need for a heterosexual man?

Suddenly a heterosexual man is competing not against simply hetero men but also preferred homo men who can mate with women, parent, share resources without them. Women are generally 1000% safer with homo men than a group of hetero men and other hetero men who might not be dangerous towards women know this imbalance. So men are neutralized by gay men, often with the assistance of women.

The best strategy for gay and straight men is to make friends and share resources and tactics and strategies for constructing their own manhood.

Smile, Kyle
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Kyle Phoenix Answers: Can straight men be attracted to gay men?

Of course, I’ve had several straight men who loved me, who were attracted to me but weren’t gay or bi.

it’s amazing, I’ve thought and said this for years—-that people who identify as non-heterosexual can relate their histories of engagements with the opposite sex, enjoying the sexual and emotional contact but not having that as a long term sexual orientation. The most bigoted people about sexuality are not homosexual people.

Many,m many straight guys find themselves in relationships with other males because of friendship, closeness, sexual attraction and it is not their orientation. It is experimentation, a personal connection to that individual, a time in their lives when they are simply available. I had a close friend in high school and for a period of time, after two years of friendship, we graduated to a romantic relationship. And it was great. But our school counselor suggested to me that one of us was sure and that he wasn’t, be prepared. he loved me. he was attracted to me. But he wasn’t same sex oriented. I was his life freebie. Of course at 18 I didn’t want to hear that bullshit and we had a tremendous break up but a decade later I understand how we were such close friends, and it could’ve been an element, a lustful summer of our friendship and then we would’ve gravitated to others. As a regret, I regret that I had such a steel box around what his sexuality should be and what he was willing to offer me.

Now, having been an LGBT youth coordinator and run thousands of folk through workshops I often meet men who’ve had romantic and sexual relationships with close friends who are gay but they aren’t gay. Does that make them bi? Pansexual?

How about this, you and your post it note of omniscience knowledge of another human being’s heart, soul and sexuality go sit the fuck down? Don't worry about God or science or the fifth genome on the third spinning bulb of the left side of someone’s DNA or the location of the fifth neuron next to the stem of the brainy brain part. Just chill.

GIf the world can’t tell you you’re NOT gay or trans or bi or into feet, then YOU can’t tell others that simple romantic or sexual contact is what makes a sexuality.

Manage your own crotch.

It’s 2018 for Jiminy Cricket’s sake.

Smile, Kyle

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Kyle Phoenix Answers: Why does the progressive movement demonize the white straight male, when they are could be allies, observers who would let them be them otherwise?

Because historically to the disenfranchised white males have been like pedophiles: Friendly at first. Creepy but seemingly benign. And then raping and pillaging as they had always planned.
Columbus arrives at Hispaniola, waves, love, hugs, thank you.....let me check out the lower Caribbean, we'll be back and then I'll go tell my queen what marvelous people you are. Sailors left behind act wild, are drunkards, attack native girls. Anacaona, leader of a cacique suggests unification of the 6 on Hispaniola, kill the 33 left behind, ambushing Columbus when returns there by creating European doubt to explore again. She marries a leader to unite two, other four dither, Columbus arrives, apologizes profusely for sailors behavior, rushes back Europe returns with armada. Anacaona is one of the first leaders killed by his forces for trying to incite sedition on Hispaniola that he now claims in Isabella s name. Armada then proceeds to kill 600,000 Tainos because they are incapable of heavy mining work for deep ores of gold Columbus wants. Holiday ensues years later.

The history of white men throughout the world is not a good one so they are used at arms length for resources that come with oppression but never trusted.

Yes, some have proven they are down for the people usually by vocally and violently opposing other white men at the protection of others. But even Abraham Lincoln was dissonant and wrote and spoke about hating two things....slavery and niggers. He struggled with that mindset engendered into him even as he morally disagreed with human bondage.

We, women, folk of color, sanction and absorb good white males, trust them to a point.
An interracial marriage couple with kids, the woman black told my class that she adored her children and deeply and profoundly loved her husband of many years . But she never completely trusted him.

That's the price of centuries of oppression and misogyny and a thousand years of wholesale killing women from the tenth century on, estimates ten million women killed in the 1200s, just because white male church officials suspected, suspected !them of heresy. 100,000, 000 Africans dragged onto the high seas and tens of millions killed or suicides. The holocaust, over ten million killed to try and get a less "mongrel" white male race---patriarchy, the Fatherland. Modern day...ten million dead in Vietnam so that France and the U.S. could control oil rights, surface lie about communism. Stalin killed over 40 million. 2 million Iraqis dead in two wars, one a trumped up con job to build six military citadels in middle east to ensure western control and ability to mobilize and take oil when it starts running low in the coming decades. What Jew would trust a group of Germans who wanted to show them some campgrounds. Israeli paranoia and manic security is based on having been near decimated by white men and betrayed by supposed allies like fdr and Churchill, even Sephardic folk are nervous because white men will slit any throat on earth.
White men have really broad, consistent and bad branding.

Any sensible human on earth checks references, watches closely and keeps one eye open, dudes are treacherous.
Don't blame rape victims for not being able to walk it off and go hang out in the locker room after centuries of gang rape by the team.

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