Of course, I’ve had several straight men who loved me, who were attracted to me but weren’t gay or bi.
it’s amazing, I’ve thought and said this for years—-that people who identify as non-heterosexual can relate their histories of engagements with the opposite sex, enjoying the sexual and emotional contact but not having that as a long term sexual orientation. The most bigoted people about sexuality are not homosexual people.
Many,m many straight guys find themselves in relationships with other males because of friendship, closeness, sexual attraction and it is not their orientation. It is experimentation, a personal connection to that individual, a time in their lives when they are simply available. I had a close friend in high school and for a period of time, after two years of friendship, we graduated to a romantic relationship. And it was great. But our school counselor suggested to me that one of us was sure and that he wasn’t, be prepared. he loved me. he was attracted to me. But he wasn’t same sex oriented. I was his life freebie. Of course at 18 I didn’t want to hear that bullshit and we had a tremendous break up but a decade later I understand how we were such close friends, and it could’ve been an element, a lustful summer of our friendship and then we would’ve gravitated to others. As a regret, I regret that I had such a steel box around what his sexuality should be and what he was willing to offer me.
Now, having been an LGBT youth coordinator and run thousands of folk through workshops I often meet men who’ve had romantic and sexual relationships with close friends who are gay but they aren’t gay. Does that make them bi? Pansexual?
How about this, you and your post it note of omniscience knowledge of another human being’s heart, soul and sexuality go sit the fuck down? Don't worry about God or science or the fifth genome on the third spinning bulb of the left side of someone’s DNA or the location of the fifth neuron next to the stem of the brainy brain part. Just chill.
GIf the world can’t tell you you’re NOT gay or trans or bi or into feet, then YOU can’t tell others that simple romantic or sexual contact is what makes a sexuality.
Manage your own crotch.
It’s 2018 for Jiminy Cricket’s sake.
Smile, Kyle
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