Sunday, June 24, 2018

Kyle Phoenix Answers: Which one is the best and safest to be, a Top or a Bottom?

Tops topping is best for sex and safety. As a top you're less at risk for STDs, particularly HIV because none of you pink parts are exposed to other bio material. Bottoming, your anal tract is completely pink parts and penetration by penis, fingers, toys, an IPhone signals your body to release your warrior t cells which STDs HIV attach to which is why it replicates so easily/fast. Penetration also creates micro tears in the anal lining. Over 90% of new cases come from bottoming.

now gonorrhea, she's equal opportunity.

so's that trick Chlamydia.

mano, that's all tongue and myth action. (ironically there is now 5% of HIV infections from oral sex---pink inner mouth and gums, bleeding action )

hpv you can actually catch being both the rod or the pond.

There's also less direct pain and discomfort topping due to involuntary and voluntary sphincter muscles....but of course there's erection pressure for length, girth and stamina.

Bottoms, while at greater risk for infection get more connection between them and a partner but.......

It's energetically unhealthy outside of either love or conscious sexuality. The Tao talks about being Yin bottom with a man and the absorption of Yang energy but don't get a chance to recirculate the energy if it's just casual sex constantly without connection.

I can say that from doing hundreds of workshops with thousands of men, bottoms experience an energetic overload that can make them "hysterical". We work on choosing top partners who will listen and participate with allowing a bottom to recirculate that energy, non penetratively.

Of course versatility is great because it opens up the possibility of sexual engagement and connection.