Kyle Phoenix Answers: I really like my girlfriend's personality but she is fat and turns me off. How do I tell her to lose weight without hurting her?

I would tell her the truth in a way that reflects her interest in change and growth. If she likes her form, you can't mention it. But if she brings it up talk to her about health not beauty . Being healthy, stronger, fitter, less sedentary, better foods. Working out together is very erotic, make it fun, foreplay, self improvement for you both. I say both because as you're her choice and not in undated with options, you're probably not the pick of the litter yourself. Men see self attractiveness different than we project see it. When and if you have that healthy lifestyle discussion get ready for your own shortcomings list. The truth is happy people compromise and settle in small ways for big payoffs.

Smile, Kyle
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