Ehh…..it’s different because a vagina and anus/rectum are different, I can say, having done both.
A male anus/sphincter/rectum—-3 stages/places feel like a bottle’s initial neck, length of the neck and then the expanse of the bottle itself——entrance-less tight (exterior), length-interior (tighter) and then inside to the rectum (open bottle) expansiveness. Depending upon the girth of a penis one may or may not feel the lining walls of the rectum but this is dangerous (which is why lube is necessary for going in and for defecation/feces, coming out). The body naturally creates mucous as lubricant but not enough for penetration from the exterior by a penis or object/dildo because that little bit of lubricating mucous is used up, burnt out, by the friction of the in and out of penetration.
A vagina feels like a wet pastry that has muscles on the outside or in grasping. A vagina also naturally lubricates but with age may require artificial lubrication. It also contracts and expands so when a penis or object enters, the vagina expands—-in a sense grasping the penis and with more and more activity—-produces more and more lubricant and relaxes/expands. A rectum does not do this, which is why lubrication is necessary for both men and women in rectums.
An anus has multiple dimensions to it. One, there’s the exterior and interior sphincter muscles——so when you penetrate a man the head inside of a condom (or not) is first like a piercing into something that is closed. So first there’s first the piercing—the difference in a vagina is that while there are muscles inside of the lining of a vagina they aren’t as the barrier that sphincter muscles act as. So men relax the exterior muscles for the piercing/penetrating consciously and then there’s an involuntary and relaxing of the interior which allows the penis/object to then move into the rectum itself—-which is only 5 to 6 inches in depth.
But (total pun here!) in a rectum of a man, you can’t feel always the “walls” of the rectum because in the piercing, twice, then your penile shaft is being grasped by the muscles of the sphincter so the sensation to a man penetrating another——is that gripping on the head/corona and shaft. Now depending upon technique is where the initial musculature grasping is. Note the labium for women isn’t as thick in muscle structure and strength to women as to men.
To a vagina, there’s less muscle resistance upon penetrating. A vagina is tighter based upon age, and yes, it re-contracts after child birthing, but as a woman ages she has to exercise (Kegels) and a man can do Kegels of the PC muscle to strengthen and control his sphincter muscles to contract, open and even massage a penis as it enters.
If you look at the diagrams above you'll see that the male prostate is behind a thin membrane about 1–2 inches from the sphincter muscles. That’s where the pleasure for a man is centrally located, though Bottoms also enjoy the feel of being filled by a man/penis and more abstractly I would say it is hormones testosterone and estrogen, in both men and women, that are trying to merge, meet, satisfy, in both men and women. Men too are trying to get a testosterone fix in the penetration from another man hormonally to the estrogen “desire” to receive testosterone—-regardless of biological and physically expressed sex.
You see from the diagram that the vagina is almost as long/deep as a rectum until one reaches the cervix. The point to point that out and to note it about men is the demand for HUGE cocks. Past labia and sphincter muscles—-1 to 2 inches, to the male prostate for prostate stimulation in act, exercises and physical movements—-as I illustrate in my book—-Pleasuring Tops,. Bottoms and Versatiles and Multiple Orgasm Training for Men—-and then for women into and up—-deeper to the vagina—-along the walls and the exterior clitoris is where stimulation comes from (think of the clitoris as an inverted penis head/external prostate. Which is why on some penis extenders and vibrators you see a nub, a rise at the base so that along with being inserted the nub will rub the clitoris.
Yeah, it gets deep…..
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