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No. It depends on her sexuality and where she is in the process of sexual assignment transitioning. As both the author of a book that goes into all of this, for years and years and years, many of my clients were trans, from to z and z to a, so we had to discuss everything from a perspective of reality, privacy and personal safety.
The argument of biological sex is moot to the point of there being 21 Identified Biological Sexes. None of us are completely one or the other—-you were merely named/matched to a point into the spectrum by the doctor and then socialized to it by your parents. With us now having a level of medical technology that makes it possible to have sexual reassignment surgery to the point where only another medical professional could ascertain upon a thorough examination where you started on the spectrum, is one major point.
A second point that those who bring up sex assignment biologically—-we all start out female. Yup, we’re all female in gestation.
Females have two of the same kind of sex chromosome (XX), and are called the homogametic sex. Males have two different kinds of sex chromosomes (XY), and are called the heterogametic sex.
A single gene (SRY) present on the Y chromosome acts as a signal to set the developmental pathway towards maleness. Presence of this gene starts off the process of virilization. This and other factors result in the sex differences in humans. The cells in females, with two X chromosomes, undergo X-inactivation, in which one of the two X chromosomes is inactivated. The inactivated X chromosome remains within a cell as a Barr body.——Wikipedia
Most people don’t know the first major demarcations:
- Sex is physically determined, not exclusively, biologically. You can be several, one, two or even none.
- Gender is socially infused or imprinted. It is mutable.
- Sexuality is intrinsically self-determined. This too is fluidic along a spectrum not lifetime singularity. (One could make the argument that it is both our society and lifespan that don’t allow for expression of this in a singular lifetime. But as society changes and lifespans increase to 100–150 years for those born after the year 2000, we will have more time to evolve, change and experiment.)
Dating Parameters By Self & Other
So this chick is now online dating. Good for her. For personal safety, if she’s physical presenting and passing and has some, if not all of the sexual reassignment, I would tell her depending upon the site and her sexuality—-determines how she should present.
There are three broad degrees:
- Passing: can’t tell/no tell where this person started at.
- In Transition: can tell this person is like an Uber, heading somewhere progressively but not at their destination yet.
- Can’t Pass: due to age, physical size, high testosterone levels, bone structure—-some folk will always be clockable.
Now before we lock down where James to Janet is on the above scale, what people don’t consider, is not the arrow, but the target.
There are at least three to four degrees of partners for a woman whether she is trans or not:
- Hetero guy: (who does not know where Janet’s Uber originally came from)
- Hetero guy: (who knows where Janet’s Uber originally came from, but she has all the Female model parts so he doesn't care.)
- Homosexual man: who likes James/Janet in his Janet/James—-he’s into crossdressing homosexuals.
- Skoliosexuals: this is man who is not homosexual and is attracted to a person who presents as female in sex and gender but does not require it absolutely physically. Breasts yes, penis, sure, vagina, maybe.
The reason why I advised several of my clients to present as they present/are is because of safety issues. Al women have to consider whether or not a man is going to kill them. Men being the biggest predator towards women on Earth, seconded to the men, a woman, is related to.
If Janet is Passing——meet him for a meal, see if there’s compatibility, go on a second date in PUBLIC. Do not go to his home, do not let him come to or drop you at your home. Tell him over the phone. This insures safety. more men have snapped and snapped the neck of a trans person, in person, because they got some information about the target of their amorous feelings.
In Transition or Can’t Pass—-it should be obvious from your pictures and profile text. Again, if you show up to his house or he to yours—-and you did some deep fake filter scrubbing and he snaps your neck—-you put yourself into a position for potential violence.
You should probably be clear in writing, on the phone, online that you are clearly trans—-explain it for the slow boys—-before meeting.
As a trans person yes, you’re still a person but you have to clarify if it needs to be discussed from the boundaries of safety first.
If you’re Platinum Grade Passing and he’s Hetero Guy and doesn't know—-this is only going to come up in a long term relationship and potentially having children. Which means that at some point you need to either become “horribly infertile” early on or divulge your secret——again, over the phone to avoid neck snapping.
But if your relationship is just for fun and you’re Passing, no, it’s your personal business, like all medical procedures. The assumption that one’s Sexual history is for public consumption is women imposing th patriarchal bs they’ve been subjected to. Interestingly women, who’ve lived time as men, establish better identity boundaries and self-belief systems. not your daddy, not your husband, not your senator, not your local sheriff, but you, a woman determine your divulgence of sexual history. Women would be more respected and powerful if they learned that the habit of flaying themselves open for inspection is dysfunctional…and spent less times on their cellphones, constantly having them n their hands—-look at that next time you’re strolling around a store or outside.
Women do and suggest to other women to do, disempowering things, that may even endanger them because those initial women were taught to do disempowering things by other women who were taught to do disempowering things.
Unless it is divulged or blatantly obvious, it is no one’s business for many personal and safety reasons.
If more women said none of your fucking business, more often, less women would have to say it. I’m just saying.
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