Sunday, October 28, 2018

Why do more gay men prefer to bottom than top? Kyle Phoenix Answers


Kyle Phoenix
Kyle Phoenix, Author of Multiple orgasm training Men, in its 3rd edition.
Yes, there is a biological reason why that was done with some really great research. For over 20 years I've been presenting and then teach expanded workshops to men around sex and sexuality and relationships. I too noticed from my youth groups to elder men a disproportionate number of Bottoms vs Tops. The more passive surveys I did the more I found it was almost correlating to the 80/20 rule. Then in 2007 I found a research project that questioned 2000 plus men who had sex with men, msm by Keith Swain a psychologist who surveyed men with a hundred question questionnaire (it's on my Kyle Phoenix website under Alpha Best test.
What he found and my surveying of an additional 200 men found that estrogen levels of production and testosterone levels of production affect all males first. The thought is that 15-20% of the whole male population are Alphas and the rest Betas. The genetic anthropologists thought is that Alphas directly protect the tribe but too many would create constant conflict and from biological jealousy of women's attention harm offspring. More Beta men, who have greater levels of estrogen are able to be more nurturing to women and children and socially and psychologically offset Alpha's in the population.
In Msm the physical characteristics are just as pronounced, shoulder slope, shoulder to hip ratio, how weight is gained, hair patterns, finger lengths, intellectual preferences, perception and yes, finally, sexual position.
The research presented the overall problem, more bottoms than tops; the confusion ---biological bottoms assume Alphas are seeking men from the physical and mental criteria that Betas do so they rush to the gym and bulk/muscle up. Alphas, Batman are seeking Robins', not other Batman's so the physical boosting and hyper masculinity drives off Alphas or confuses them and draws Betas to the Alpha looking, acting Betas who then rush home and throw themselves both onto theirs backs and scream take me.
There is a two part scoring of the test to show that the most evenly attracted couples had a balancing of about 15-20 points between, more and the other was too emotionally extreme or too close and they negated each other....where there's visual attraction but not emotional chemistry because there's not a balance of masculine/feminine energy (to absorb the fantastic Dr. Patricia Allen into this whose m/f survey I was using as my baseline to get to Swains NMBS in Dynamic Duos.
Where are the Alphas?
Half are in the closet in traditional heterosexual marriages because they want traditional defined hetero relationships and children.
The other half are present but not as flamboyant as Betas in communities so they tend to be invisible but a mark of an Alpha man is that he doesn't have an issue with feminine men because he likes the emotional availability and intimacy. Its Betas who are turned off by it and attack femininity trying to be more masculine.
Beta men are encouraged to one be more versatile because due to numbers they will have to be to mate. They are also encouraged to stop being so butch because Alphas are seeking Betas to protect and care for not compete with.
Yes to two questions---all men want to be Alphas. Just like the massive penis growth men have in their minds. Actually Beta penises tend to be longer due to estrogen whole Alphas are shorter and thicker. Once I explain that bit of biology msm don't know which side to try and hope to.
And yes there are a micro-percentage of men who present b/A---Beta emotional structure but Alpha body, appearance natural. They have the hardest time mating because they have to stop competing with the Alpha men they desire and accept, at least in the relationship the Beta role they desire.
The pairing is b/B, A/a and A/b.
Now I've done this workshop with several thousand men over the years and prescribed their dating style to follow and it always works.
Yes, I was skeptical at first but I was on track to seeing and identifying this so I could proof it faster plus I had 150 msm a week to work this out with. Trust me, it's the biological truth.

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